We start with your why
What do you want this trip to feel like, or to change? We begin there, so every choice after it has a reason.
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Africa's most trusted travel coach, for women 40+ who are done waiting.
I grew up in Kenya with a passport full of dreams and a calendar full of responsibilities. The “right time” never arrived, so I stopped waiting. Over the next three decades, I explored 100 countries, learned how to plan calmly and safely, and proved to myself that travel can be both soul-filling and affordable.
Along the way, I noticed something: we don't travel for hotels or hashtags. We travel to feel different, braver, lighter, connected, and joyful. That's why I became an ICF-certified coach and created TravelwithMkay, a supportive place where midlife women get the clarity, structure, and confidence to say, “I'm going.”
A travel coach helps you work out why you want to travel and what kind of trip you really need, then helps you plan it and gives you the skills and confidence to book it yourself. Most trips start with a destination. A coached trip starts with you.
What do you want this trip to feel like, or to change? We begin there, so every choice after it has a reason.
Destination, dates, budget, visas on your passport, flights, stays and safety, in the right order, with smart trade-offs.
I don't sell packages and I don't book for you. You book it yourself, with my checks and tools, so next time you can do it without me.
Questions, wobbles, last-minute changes: I'm your guide, sounding board and cheer section from the first idea to the day you land.
“While an agent would book just one trip for you, a coach leaves you able to book every trip after that.”
Together we turn every what-if into a simple, realistic plan: where to go, when to go, what it will really cost, and how to stay safe while you're there.
You stay in control. I'm your guide, your sounding board and your cheer section, from the first idea to touchdown. If you're ready to swap “one day” for “I'm going,” I'm here for you: gently, practically, and on your terms.
Still, the demand for human guidance keeps rising. Virtuoso reported a sustained 76% jump in travelers seeking out a travel advisor.
AI is good at where. Coaching starts with why.
Travel coaching links the why behind your trip to a plan you actually use. If you're a woman 40+ who's done waiting, I help you turn intention into “I'm going,” with confidence, calm and choice.
Because “one day” keeps moving. Your energy, curiosity and priorities are ready now, and the right trip can change how you feel about the next decade.
Agents sell trips. Coaches build choices and confidence.
Clarity, mindset and smart trade-offs, so the trip serves your why.
Spend where comfort matters, save where it doesn't.
Neighborhoods, timing and check-ins: simple steps that work.
Small steps, clear options, gentle support.
Clear these and you're ready to go
Every trip that actually happens passes three simple checks. Clear these with me and text your friends, “I'm going to ____.”
Replace what-ifs with a calm plan: destination, dates, budget, baseline safety.
your why, a simple route, and two next actions.
Step-by-step bookings, visas, timing, and a carry-on-friendly packing list.
the right order of tasks, key links, and money-saving trade-offs.
Solo or with friends, luxe or lean, with support that fits how you want to travel.
personal safety routines, a first-day plan, and confidence.
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“…independent travel does not mean unsupported travel. It means being better prepared.”Catherine, Coached with her family
Start with one 30-minute call, join my six-week group bootcamp, or work one to one with me on Travel Lifestyle Mapping. Everything happens online, and you keep the skills for every trip after this one.
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My first trip abroad was a school exchange to Germany in 1989. Thirty-seven years, five continents and 39 African countries later, São Tomé and Príncipe became country 100. No lottery win, no sponsor, just planning, done over and over.
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New guides, costs and routes, updated as things change on the ground.
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Midlife travel
22 September 2026Still unsure? Start with a 30-minute call. It's the quickest way to find out if coaching is right for you.
A travel coach helps you get clear on why you want to travel and what kind of trip you really need, then helps you plan it: destination, dates, budget, visas, flights and safety. You make the decisions and you do the booking, with my checks. The goal is that you can plan the next trip without me.
No. A travel agent sells travel and books it for you, usually from packages. I don't sell packages and I don't book for you. I coach you through the decisions, and you book it yourself with the same tools and checks I have used across 100 countries.
Mostly African women over 40 who are done waiting to travel. I also coach families, couples and experienced travelers who want a better system. Clients join from Kenya, from across Africa (South Africa and Chad among them) and from all over the world, including the US and Europe.
Yes. Visa rules are one of the most common reasons trips stall. I show you how to check current rules from official sources, which countries are visa-free or e-visa for your passport, and how to prepare a strong application. Nobody can honestly guarantee a visa decision, and I won't pretend to.
Everything happens online. Choose a call or the bootcamp, pay securely by card or M-Pesa, then pick a time on my calendar. After a call you get a short written summary and a list of resources.
That's exactly where many of my clients start. My own first trip abroad was a school exchange in 1989. We begin with what you want to feel, choose an easy first destination, and build your confidence one step at a time.
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